Week three was yet another great week. The honeymoon period is over for sure and R and Curtis have settled into the routine. Both children know what to expect and R is very keyed in to what comes next. She anticipates the next phase and often asks, "when are we going to have story?". She asks this just before I get the puppets out.
This week was all about lightening bugs. The story by Phillip Rhoades and the accompanying puppets I needle felted were well-received. You can read a PDF of the story at this link http://www.ungab.com/files/The_First_Lightning_Bug.pdf
I made a lightening bug with a removable brown bottom that hides it's light, a lady lightening, and a cloud that represents Brother Wind. I was so thrilled to find a story that had Brother Wind in it by name because we often use the term Brother Wind at school....mother moon father sun, etc. R really loved this one and enjoyed playing with lady lightening afterwards. Curtis must have liked it too because he was very quiet all week during story time. I also delivered this one to them as a lap story...where I lay the silks on my lap and tuck them into my collar and use my own self as a stage...this seemed to work very well.
On Tuesday we had midsummer's day. A beautiful warm day it was. We sing songs as we walk out of the woods which correspond to the season. (when we walk in I don't speak much as I want them to hear the birds). Anyway, starting on Monday we sang two new songs
"Oh welcome to you , oh beautiful sun, when grass is so high and children will run.". This is in three parts and I go through all three.
The other is a nursery class favorite:
"Dandelion, yellow and gold. what do you do all day? I sit and I wait in the tall green grass til the children come and play
Dandelion, yellow and gold, what do you do all night? I sit and I wait in the tall green grass til my hair turns long and white.
Dandelion yellow and gold, what do you do when your hair turns white and the children come and play?
They pick me up with their dimpled hands and blow my hair away."
They hardly even know they are walking up a hill! These songs go well with summertime. On Tuesday I also read a midsummer theme story to the children at rest time. We always read one short book before rest. This one was from A Donsy of Gnomes..and it was called Mossy. This story is about an actual gnome midsummer party in Limindor Woods.
On Monday in our own Carpenters Woods, Curtis and R were able to play with some children from Summit Day Care who visit the same spot we do every Monday during the summer. So this is a nice added rhythm to our week...meeting up with the Summit children at the bridge.
On Wednesday, we got into my car to head down to the woods And lo and behold..the battery was dead. So we walked instead. The children loved the walk down . It was wonderful to see all the beautiful flowers planted along the way...and to see various trucks and worker vehicles. The children didn't even complain that day on the way back. I was surprised as it is about seven long blocks...half of them uphill. They ate very very well when we got back and slept very soundly.
Well, AAA came out and replaced the old battery, but I wanted to try the walking experiment again. This time I took the wagon with me. There was a lot of complaining even though I pulled them on all the downhills. Well I got great exercise, but upon asking them if they enjoyed their walk that day, they answered in unison, "it was too long! When will your car be fixed?" So now we drive down to Weavers Way and walk from there. That seems to be just the right length of walk for them. Two and half blocks. I point out all the beautiful flowers and plants along the way..purple cone flowers, black eyed susans ferns, hosta, lilies..and we get to see many bees busy at work.
By Thursday, the children had such good color and energy from all their excursions that week...when we got to the woods and our special place, they asked to hike some more...so I took them through the loop and made our way back to the meadow. We stopped along the way on a downhill run that had a lot of large flat rocks .. r and Curtis enjoyed lying across them on their backs and looking up at the trees. I did this too...so lovely...until a fellow hiker started coming uphill..then I got up...I had a dress on.
On Friday we stayed and played as is our usual rhythm instead of trekking to the woods. It was overcast...so we went to the back yard. ( R and I got a little too much sun though...more sunscreen is called for even on overcast days..I'll make sure of that!) I filled up our pool and R and C loved it. The sandbox was in full use and Curt even made one of the smaller slides into a pirate ship...complete with a plank to walk...he weighted it down with a grill and many many bricks..it actually supports him and allows him to jump off it to the ground. In the meantime...our silk squares were basking in the sun inside their warm mason jars complete with hot water and turmeric. Curt left before lunch with his father to go camping at Cape Henlopen...I was to join them later... R and I got to rinse out the silks after rest time and hang them to dry. They are very beautiful. We will do this again next week with purple beet juice. I read somewhere that turmeric is used by the monks to dye their yellow sashes..cheaper than saffron I suppose..and the added bonus is that it doesn't require a mordant...perfect for dyeing with children.
R and I went to the trolley car for ice cream as usual on Friday after rest time..she had vanilla this week..no sprinkles.
But where are the pictures she promised? After many phone calls to Cricket my cell carrier..seems I need to upgrade to a web service plan and email myself the photos...this can be accomplished after July 2nd. So look for added pictures in these blogs after then. There are so many..I can't wait to add them.
Next week...week four..is still lightening bugs...if the children catch any with you at night...they can whisper a wish to them and release them...just like it says in the story...and though they are wee bugs..they will still try their hardest to make those wishes come true. Curt keeps wishing for a new kitten.. And then wonders why it hasn't shown up yet. Hmmm mm. I wonder.
Monday, June 27, 2011
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Week Two Ladybugs
Hi all. Week two was even better than week one...The magic crockpot figured out the exact measurements for the ingredients and likes to start its work promptly at 6 am. This past week the group was small with only R and Curtis...3 year old girl and 5 year old boy respectively. Curt continues to learn to adapt his play to suit R. This week they practiced a made up language together. This is a fun thing for Curt..last Autumn an Israeli family started at his school and Curt got to hear a fair bit of Hebrew being spoken by the parents to their children. He started to mimic the sounds and pretend to speak. I was concerned that some adults would think he was making fun at the little boy..but I knew he was just trying out "speaking another language.". Curt also proudly says he CAN speak Hebrew or Swedish or even Arabic as these are languages he has been exposed to.
Anyway, R and Curt talked a blue streak of their own made up language complete with inflection and exclamation. Later in the week Curt started to play dress up with R much to her delight..He would don a princess dress and crown and be a princess kitty while R with her tiara is the kitty owner who feeds and helps the kitty who often seems in distress. Funny how princess kitty is often mewing for something or other...and R in such a sweet soft voice pats the kitty's back and says, "yes,yes kitty...it's alright. What would you like?". When children play with others and use this kind of vocab...i know they have brought some of this with their very nature to ths world..but I also like to think they pick up a bit in their strong urge to imitate ... their parents. So kudos to r's parents, i am sure these soft spoken words of comfort were spoken to her at some point.
Of course, curt still likes to worry R with loud play at times..but I have been giving her tools to deal..like come to me and stand behind me..i will sort out curt. She seems to like this and has been trusting me to make things ok again.
Curt gets frustrated when he tries to teach her something in his almost six year old way...for example...this is the way the puzzle works or something.....and R who knows her own mind does not care for such instruction. He has much more patience than he did at four years that's for sure...he doesn't strike out...but has on occasion removed the prized tiara and hidden it under the bed. rascal! But we work to sort it out and move on.
Enough psychology....the woods...the blessed woods. The big eyed frog family likes to make an appearance every day. They have taken up residence slightly north of the bridge and are resisting curt's valiant efforts to place them in his net. It is beautiful to see them hop and swim and it makes R laugh to see them. R is so much more confident of her footing in the stream and on the land near the bridge. She strips off her shoes straight away. She likes getting in the stream and is mastering the art of descending the bank to reach the water. She has learned to use a log as a hand rail and she can climb up on this low log and sit upon it. She asks me to sit beside her and tell her the story of the velveteen rabbit. Curt likes to stay nearby and try for the frogs while listening..but R is content to sit and listen.
R also has learned to walk along one of the other logs. And find a spot nearer the ground for her so that she can straddle the log and "ride a horse.". It is fulfilling to see her confidence in doing this and sometimes she has a little running dialogue going with herself.."i'm looking for the lower spot..here it is...leg over...ride the horse."
R is trying her hand at the nets also..she tries to catch those spindly legged walk-on-water bugs with them...and also pick up a bit of sand.
Now that R has grown confident with the woodsy location, i can follow Curt up into the blown down tree slightly east of the bridge and climb along like a bear. Curt can do most of it standing up like a tightrope walker. He likes to pretend he has a machete and is hacking away at thick grasses in the jungle...as there is still quite a bit of vegetation on and around the blown down trees. I can see R clearly from the log...she sometimes walks on the cleared path to the log..but prefers to hang near the bridge at this time. She knows where I am and I call to her occasionally and wave...she has just enough distance from me so that she does not feel the urge to include me in her play...which R often likes to do with me when I am in proximity.
One of her favorite games is to walk in the water next to the bridge and select rocks from the stream bed. She takes them in her small hands and lifts them almost over her head to place them on the bridge. When she has amassed enough of them..she makes her way on top of the bridge to throw them into the stream below. She delights in the large Kerplunk they make when they hit only water. She also engages in her personal dialogue here as well...more of a singing to herself as she goes about her important work. I just delight in watching this full immersion of the young child in play.
We start the day with our beloved puppets as you know, and this is the last week for ladybugs. Curt and R are great helper puppeteers. R likes the bird who gives ladybug a ride on her back and sings, "Tra lee la lu, Tra lee la lu, this is what little birds do.". Curt has a hard time not getting silly and loud during puppet play..which can "spoil the mood a bit." but bless R she just stays engaged..she can even sleep through Curt's sometime outburts during rest time. Wow.
Anyway, back to puppets. R sems to have the story living in her and often will often reenact the play right afterwawrds as I leave the puppets out for the children to play with. Curt, even with his outbursts, has started singing Tra lee la lu out of the blue during the day. Aaah it reached him too. Funny thing...I never quite got the cricket's fiddle song right...hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee...Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee...Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee, hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle, Ho hey! Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee...Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle...ho hey! he always says..."that's not right". Seems he knows it doesn't sit with me either. And that's the part when he will start to jump about and bust the mood. Amazing testament to how in bringing the play or the song or the circle...there must be the assuredness of the teacher deep within. Much for me to work on here.
Poison ivy alert...young curt has contracted a seemingly mild case on his ankles...i am treating with jewelweed soap. I will start putting the ivy block on him before entering the woods. I still put the Buzz Away on the children as well unless they already reek of citronella.
This upcoming week is Fireflies..I am going to use their other name, lightening bugs. Our story will deal with Sister Lightening and her good work in giving the bug its light on its "tushi.". I think they will delight in this one...here's a shout out to Phillip Rhoades for this tale..you can check it out on YouTube. I know..i'm lame...i just couldn't come up with one myself and was researching...but I really like his...we'll see how it's received. And on cue, this past friday as we were felting our balls again in the courtyard, we saw our first lightening bug of the season..of course his light was out in the sunlight...but still.
Felt balls were beautiful this week..they have spirals in them...Summer Solstice happens on tuesday and spirals and sunshine are the theme for this festival. i hope to have the nature table arrayed properly by then. "A" will be joining us on Thursday and Friday this week coming. She is a four year old girl. The art project on Friday will be dyeing silks the color of the sun..and lightening bug tushis.
Blessings to you, Ms.Rocksand
.
Anyway, R and Curt talked a blue streak of their own made up language complete with inflection and exclamation. Later in the week Curt started to play dress up with R much to her delight..He would don a princess dress and crown and be a princess kitty while R with her tiara is the kitty owner who feeds and helps the kitty who often seems in distress. Funny how princess kitty is often mewing for something or other...and R in such a sweet soft voice pats the kitty's back and says, "yes,yes kitty...it's alright. What would you like?". When children play with others and use this kind of vocab...i know they have brought some of this with their very nature to ths world..but I also like to think they pick up a bit in their strong urge to imitate ... their parents. So kudos to r's parents, i am sure these soft spoken words of comfort were spoken to her at some point.
Of course, curt still likes to worry R with loud play at times..but I have been giving her tools to deal..like come to me and stand behind me..i will sort out curt. She seems to like this and has been trusting me to make things ok again.
Curt gets frustrated when he tries to teach her something in his almost six year old way...for example...this is the way the puzzle works or something.....and R who knows her own mind does not care for such instruction. He has much more patience than he did at four years that's for sure...he doesn't strike out...but has on occasion removed the prized tiara and hidden it under the bed. rascal! But we work to sort it out and move on.
Enough psychology....the woods...the blessed woods. The big eyed frog family likes to make an appearance every day. They have taken up residence slightly north of the bridge and are resisting curt's valiant efforts to place them in his net. It is beautiful to see them hop and swim and it makes R laugh to see them. R is so much more confident of her footing in the stream and on the land near the bridge. She strips off her shoes straight away. She likes getting in the stream and is mastering the art of descending the bank to reach the water. She has learned to use a log as a hand rail and she can climb up on this low log and sit upon it. She asks me to sit beside her and tell her the story of the velveteen rabbit. Curt likes to stay nearby and try for the frogs while listening..but R is content to sit and listen.
R also has learned to walk along one of the other logs. And find a spot nearer the ground for her so that she can straddle the log and "ride a horse.". It is fulfilling to see her confidence in doing this and sometimes she has a little running dialogue going with herself.."i'm looking for the lower spot..here it is...leg over...ride the horse."
R is trying her hand at the nets also..she tries to catch those spindly legged walk-on-water bugs with them...and also pick up a bit of sand.
Now that R has grown confident with the woodsy location, i can follow Curt up into the blown down tree slightly east of the bridge and climb along like a bear. Curt can do most of it standing up like a tightrope walker. He likes to pretend he has a machete and is hacking away at thick grasses in the jungle...as there is still quite a bit of vegetation on and around the blown down trees. I can see R clearly from the log...she sometimes walks on the cleared path to the log..but prefers to hang near the bridge at this time. She knows where I am and I call to her occasionally and wave...she has just enough distance from me so that she does not feel the urge to include me in her play...which R often likes to do with me when I am in proximity.
One of her favorite games is to walk in the water next to the bridge and select rocks from the stream bed. She takes them in her small hands and lifts them almost over her head to place them on the bridge. When she has amassed enough of them..she makes her way on top of the bridge to throw them into the stream below. She delights in the large Kerplunk they make when they hit only water. She also engages in her personal dialogue here as well...more of a singing to herself as she goes about her important work. I just delight in watching this full immersion of the young child in play.
We start the day with our beloved puppets as you know, and this is the last week for ladybugs. Curt and R are great helper puppeteers. R likes the bird who gives ladybug a ride on her back and sings, "Tra lee la lu, Tra lee la lu, this is what little birds do.". Curt has a hard time not getting silly and loud during puppet play..which can "spoil the mood a bit." but bless R she just stays engaged..she can even sleep through Curt's sometime outburts during rest time. Wow.
Anyway, back to puppets. R sems to have the story living in her and often will often reenact the play right afterwawrds as I leave the puppets out for the children to play with. Curt, even with his outbursts, has started singing Tra lee la lu out of the blue during the day. Aaah it reached him too. Funny thing...I never quite got the cricket's fiddle song right...hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee...Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee...Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee, hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle, Ho hey! Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee...Hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle dee hey diddle hey diddle hey diddle...ho hey! he always says..."that's not right". Seems he knows it doesn't sit with me either. And that's the part when he will start to jump about and bust the mood. Amazing testament to how in bringing the play or the song or the circle...there must be the assuredness of the teacher deep within. Much for me to work on here.
Poison ivy alert...young curt has contracted a seemingly mild case on his ankles...i am treating with jewelweed soap. I will start putting the ivy block on him before entering the woods. I still put the Buzz Away on the children as well unless they already reek of citronella.
This upcoming week is Fireflies..I am going to use their other name, lightening bugs. Our story will deal with Sister Lightening and her good work in giving the bug its light on its "tushi.". I think they will delight in this one...here's a shout out to Phillip Rhoades for this tale..you can check it out on YouTube. I know..i'm lame...i just couldn't come up with one myself and was researching...but I really like his...we'll see how it's received. And on cue, this past friday as we were felting our balls again in the courtyard, we saw our first lightening bug of the season..of course his light was out in the sunlight...but still.
Felt balls were beautiful this week..they have spirals in them...Summer Solstice happens on tuesday and spirals and sunshine are the theme for this festival. i hope to have the nature table arrayed properly by then. "A" will be joining us on Thursday and Friday this week coming. She is a four year old girl. The art project on Friday will be dyeing silks the color of the sun..and lightening bug tushis.
Blessings to you, Ms.Rocksand
.
Enrichment class for the four year old...repost from another group
Here is another forward from the yahoo group of Marsha Johnson at Shining Star Waldorf Schhol in Oregon. I have been following her work for about five years and am still bowled over by her succinct wisdom that she doles out honestly and without beating around the bush! If you're interested check out the group called waldorfhomeeducators in the yahoo groups realm. She also has a new website called
http://www.magicofwaldorf.com/. Which has a compilation of her words of wisdom on how to really bring the workings of waldorf education to your family home, called Mrs. m's Words of Wisdom.
The topic below is one I felt very keenly with my oldest boy...who will be 15 next month! He was not "wrapped up in waldorf" and I had him in Kixx summer soccer camps from the age of four years old and karate class from three years until eight years. Of course the pendulum swings so far the other way doesn't it..with my youngest..who is five, he is in no enrichment programs..other than this wonderful school of course. I still sometimes get the twinge that makes me think...maybe i should sign him up for this or that......i'm glad to have read this article...and to live so close to the woods.
Happy Summer, Roxanne
>> I would just add that four year olds do seem to have a habit of asking for
> > many things or activities that can be surprising and provoking to parents
> > who want to 'respond', as well. So the child who is 4 says, I want to play
> > Tennis! Aha thinks mama/papa, perhaps my child will be a tennis prodigy! So
> > out we go to get the $90 racquet and prepare for lessons and in a few
> > months, that raquest is under a pile of stuffed animals acting as a
> > trampoline. : )
> >
> > Same with violin, guitar, ballet, cricket, football, piano, you name it,
> > the 4 year old expresses a wish and a desire, often quite strongly! and when
> > we comply and go out and acquire all these things, well, the 4 year old does
> > not really want to play piano at all! They like to dink around on it, but
> > they do not like to sit still and practice for 30 minutes and listen...
> >
> > Ok some do. A rare few. The vast majority of 4 year olds just want, pure
> > WANT, something right now. Yes, this very moment!
> >
> > I want a lot of things too, but I am a great grown up lady and know I have
> > to prioritze and plan and prepare and save up and so on and even then I
> > don't get what I want, much of the time, haha, which is a good thing or I
> > would eat 12 VooDoo maple bars a day and it would be hard to fit through my
> > front door.
> >
> > Or whatever.
> >
> > We must remember that 4 year old want a lot of things and their need is
> > immediate, Instant Need Which Must Be Met (not!) and we can say, oh yes
> > won't it be great when you are xyz and then you can xyz (take classes, take
> > music lessons, drive my car, get married, whatever)...
> >
> > That will be GREAT!
> >
> > Now let's go outside and water the garden.
> >
> > Just because your child asks, does not mean, they 'get'. They may or may
> > not 'get', depending on your adult judgment and desires and plans and you
> > have that marvelous parenting phrase, we will see! to use as much as you
> > like.
> >
> > All children know that means, maybe but probably not.
> >
> > So be it.
> >
> > We are the parents, after all.
> > Mrs M
--- In waldorfhomeeducators@yahoogroups.com, "Beth" wrote:
>
> Hi,
>
> I have a daughter who turned 4 in March. I also have a nearly 11 year old son whom we homeschool and our daughter is also home with us (I just don't consider children younger than school age to be "homeschooled").
>
> Our son has 2-3 enrichment classes a week during the school year (handwork, lego engineering, hands on geometry-- that kind of thing) which he enjoys.
>
> Other little girls we know who are a similar age as my daughter are taking gymnastics and/or dance class. Our daughter had once been to a gymnastics birthday party and thought she would like to take gymnastics.
>
> So, when my son's classes were finished for the school year, we tried gymnastics for her. She always said that she liked it. But from my perspective, especially from learning more about Waldorf and more about child development, they were introducing too many variations too quickly. My experience with these little ones is that they enjoy and benefit from a lot of sameness with a few new things thrown in gradually. At the place we went to, the music was kind of loud, not really for little children, and was different every week. There was this large screen facing where the parents sit that showed a continually changing array of images/ ads/ info about how beneficial gymnastics is for children...
>
> My daughter looked kind of stressed in the gymnastics class as she tried to figure out what to do next-- again and again. Since the environment was overstimulating for me (with the music and the large screen) and I wasn't really happy with it for her, I took her out.
>
> And then we tried a dance class. This class meets after school and I think a lot of the little girls who have been at school all day are probably kind of tired. It's kind of hectic in the class with 12 little girls, many of whom want a lot of attention from the teacher. My daughter also has that same stressed look on her face as she appears to be trying to precisely replicate what the teacher is doing as much as she can; she seems kind of nervous about it. But again it hasn't been broken down into small enough steps for her to easily figure out what to do. And probably some of the same things would come more easily at a slightly older age-- as she continues to develop naturally. The main time she was smiling and looked happy was when they were doing free-form dancing with scarves and music (and there was nothing to concentrate on learning and copying). She seems excited about the class and wants to attend.
>
> So..this is quite a long way of describing that I am feeling kind of uncomfortable with this path of enrichment classes for 4 year olds. If there was some really cozy, gentle, imaginative class for creative movement I would be open to that. But I haven't really liked what I've seen so far. And I'm sure that, even if you wanted to be a professional dancer, you would not need to start at age 4.
>
> And at the same time, she does want to be "special" and go to a "class" like her brother does and she says she likes the classes she has tried... Any thoughts?
>
> Thanks!
> Beth
>
http://www.magicofwaldorf.com/. Which has a compilation of her words of wisdom on how to really bring the workings of waldorf education to your family home, called Mrs. m's Words of Wisdom.
The topic below is one I felt very keenly with my oldest boy...who will be 15 next month! He was not "wrapped up in waldorf" and I had him in Kixx summer soccer camps from the age of four years old and karate class from three years until eight years. Of course the pendulum swings so far the other way doesn't it..with my youngest..who is five, he is in no enrichment programs..other than this wonderful school of course. I still sometimes get the twinge that makes me think...maybe i should sign him up for this or that......i'm glad to have read this article...and to live so close to the woods.
Happy Summer, Roxanne
>> I would just add that four year olds do seem to have a habit of asking for
> > many things or activities that can be surprising and provoking to parents
> > who want to 'respond', as well. So the child who is 4 says, I want to play
> > Tennis! Aha thinks mama/papa, perhaps my child will be a tennis prodigy! So
> > out we go to get the $90 racquet and prepare for lessons and in a few
> > months, that raquest is under a pile of stuffed animals acting as a
> > trampoline. : )
> >
> > Same with violin, guitar, ballet, cricket, football, piano, you name it,
> > the 4 year old expresses a wish and a desire, often quite strongly! and when
> > we comply and go out and acquire all these things, well, the 4 year old does
> > not really want to play piano at all! They like to dink around on it, but
> > they do not like to sit still and practice for 30 minutes and listen...
> >
> > Ok some do. A rare few. The vast majority of 4 year olds just want, pure
> > WANT, something right now. Yes, this very moment!
> >
> > I want a lot of things too, but I am a great grown up lady and know I have
> > to prioritze and plan and prepare and save up and so on and even then I
> > don't get what I want, much of the time, haha, which is a good thing or I
> > would eat 12 VooDoo maple bars a day and it would be hard to fit through my
> > front door.
> >
> > Or whatever.
> >
> > We must remember that 4 year old want a lot of things and their need is
> > immediate, Instant Need Which Must Be Met (not!) and we can say, oh yes
> > won't it be great when you are xyz and then you can xyz (take classes, take
> > music lessons, drive my car, get married, whatever)...
> >
> > That will be GREAT!
> >
> > Now let's go outside and water the garden.
> >
> > Just because your child asks, does not mean, they 'get'. They may or may
> > not 'get', depending on your adult judgment and desires and plans and you
> > have that marvelous parenting phrase, we will see! to use as much as you
> > like.
> >
> > All children know that means, maybe but probably not.
> >
> > So be it.
> >
> > We are the parents, after all.
> > Mrs M
--- In waldorfhomeeducators@yahoogroups.com, "Beth"
>
> Hi,
>
> I have a daughter who turned 4 in March. I also have a nearly 11 year old son whom we homeschool and our daughter is also home with us (I just don't consider children younger than school age to be "homeschooled").
>
> Our son has 2-3 enrichment classes a week during the school year (handwork, lego engineering, hands on geometry-- that kind of thing) which he enjoys.
>
> Other little girls we know who are a similar age as my daughter are taking gymnastics and/or dance class. Our daughter had once been to a gymnastics birthday party and thought she would like to take gymnastics.
>
> So, when my son's classes were finished for the school year, we tried gymnastics for her. She always said that she liked it. But from my perspective, especially from learning more about Waldorf and more about child development, they were introducing too many variations too quickly. My experience with these little ones is that they enjoy and benefit from a lot of sameness with a few new things thrown in gradually. At the place we went to, the music was kind of loud, not really for little children, and was different every week. There was this large screen facing where the parents sit that showed a continually changing array of images/ ads/ info about how beneficial gymnastics is for children...
>
> My daughter looked kind of stressed in the gymnastics class as she tried to figure out what to do next-- again and again. Since the environment was overstimulating for me (with the music and the large screen) and I wasn't really happy with it for her, I took her out.
>
> And then we tried a dance class. This class meets after school and I think a lot of the little girls who have been at school all day are probably kind of tired. It's kind of hectic in the class with 12 little girls, many of whom want a lot of attention from the teacher. My daughter also has that same stressed look on her face as she appears to be trying to precisely replicate what the teacher is doing as much as she can; she seems kind of nervous about it. But again it hasn't been broken down into small enough steps for her to easily figure out what to do. And probably some of the same things would come more easily at a slightly older age-- as she continues to develop naturally. The main time she was smiling and looked happy was when they were doing free-form dancing with scarves and music (and there was nothing to concentrate on learning and copying). She seems excited about the class and wants to attend.
>
> So..this is quite a long way of describing that I am feeling kind of uncomfortable with this path of enrichment classes for 4 year olds. If there was some really cozy, gentle, imaginative class for creative movement I would be open to that. But I haven't really liked what I've seen so far. And I'm sure that, even if you wanted to be a professional dancer, you would not need to start at age 4.
>
> And at the same time, she does want to be "special" and go to a "class" like her brother does and she says she likes the classes she has tried... Any thoughts?
>
> Thanks!
> Beth
>
Sunday, June 12, 2011
Week one Ladybugs
Week one i'd like to call an unbridled success. The theme of the week was ladybugs as will be the theme next week. Our little magic 1970s magic orange crockpot cooked delicious meals for us all week which we ate up upon return from the woods. I am still fine tuning the ingredients measures, but all in all, they worked out very well. The favorite meal of the week was Friday's steel cut oatmeal...cooked with some milk and agave and a fair bit of butter. Yum yum.
Everyday we visited the bridge in the woods and by week's end we had navigated our way farther west walking along the stream bed. The little ones grow so strong amd sturdy on their feet navigating the rocky bed and enjoying the cool water on their toes. There are still some cries of .. "i don't want to get my feet wet" or " i don't want to get my shoes dirty." There is also the old standy-by of "i can't do it". But these cries lessened as the week went on. The children truly enjoyed the time out in the "wilds" and the time passed very quickly.
Little creatures we found in the woods included Sally Salamander, two noisy little frogs, many dancing butterflies..even small purple ones. Robin red breast, cardinals, woodpeckers and the spotted yellow warbler were among feathered friends who came to visit.
Favorite stories told while lounging on the bridge or balancing on a felled log include Teezle and Tweed, The Crystal Cave, The magical cooking Pot, and of course my version of Robin Hood.
Our puppet story this past week and this upcoming week comes from Suzanne Downs and is the story of an orange flower that mysteriously has a red center with black polka dots..as opposed to its friends with white centers. Can you imagine who had been visiting that flower?
Inside play allowed children new to my place to discover the pram full of babies, the children's kitchen, train tracks and the magic marble run. My Curtis built a lovely home from couches, cushions and blankets that graced the living room for many days. Lots of negotiating amongst themselves was practiced in that cushiony house...doorways needed to be modified for those that needed a more accessible way in, extra rooms were made to accomodate guests and a backyard garden gate was added for those that "were getting a little nervous."
It was fascinating to watch Curt learn to adapt his play to his new playmates. He wanted to start right in with them on games from Daisy Kindergarten which he played happily with the older boys. I suggested that perhaps the three year old might not want to play swords and Star Wars, and that she might like faeires and babies. My heart just melted as he adapted to her and built her a lovely house for faeries complete with ladders and swings which they played happily with together.
Rest time is always the most challenging part of our day..but so needed by the littles after all their adventures. We started at 130 each day with bathroom time and a story. This was read from a book. Books this week included The Nutcracker: A Ballet, Something from Nothing, The Lost Kitten, and the one that I always have to choke back tears when I read it...Guess How Much I Love You? Once in our cozy beds I hum a lullaby for a while and most days even the 5 year old had a snooze.
Tea time is promptly at 345 and it is so nice to enjoy a cup of tea, Rooibos or lavendar, and a croissant with the little ones. This is served on my favorite faery tray complete with lots of sweet faeries with wings and lovely clothes.
Then we were out to the garden in the backyard. Things are coming along out there. The sandbox was heavily used as was alot of water..quite a heat wave this past week with temperatures rising to 100F! The pool was brought out as were the sprinklers. The lettuces are doing well....the sugar snap peas are finished..way too hot for them. We planted some tomato seeds, brussel sprout seeds and zinia seeds. It also seems that in the Children's garden, the rotting pumpkins from november have sprouted vines...maybe there will be at least one pumpkin in the autumn!
Lastly, Friday's craft project was a success! We wet felted lovely balls with lots and lots of Dr. bronners Sal Suds soapy soapy water. Two turned out as ladybug balls and two turned out to be favorite color balls. I had hoped to put a jingle bell in the middle of each...but couldn't locate them. We'll do this craft again this upcoming Friday..maybe i'll find the bells by then. If i still have your child's ball it is because they had not dried yet and I have to pass the felting needle over them to push in any stray ends. They are lovely though. As soon as the proper cord for my cellphone arrives in the mail, i'll add pictures to this posting.
I look forward to this week.
Everyday we visited the bridge in the woods and by week's end we had navigated our way farther west walking along the stream bed. The little ones grow so strong amd sturdy on their feet navigating the rocky bed and enjoying the cool water on their toes. There are still some cries of .. "i don't want to get my feet wet" or " i don't want to get my shoes dirty." There is also the old standy-by of "i can't do it". But these cries lessened as the week went on. The children truly enjoyed the time out in the "wilds" and the time passed very quickly.
Little creatures we found in the woods included Sally Salamander, two noisy little frogs, many dancing butterflies..even small purple ones. Robin red breast, cardinals, woodpeckers and the spotted yellow warbler were among feathered friends who came to visit.
Favorite stories told while lounging on the bridge or balancing on a felled log include Teezle and Tweed, The Crystal Cave, The magical cooking Pot, and of course my version of Robin Hood.
Our puppet story this past week and this upcoming week comes from Suzanne Downs and is the story of an orange flower that mysteriously has a red center with black polka dots..as opposed to its friends with white centers. Can you imagine who had been visiting that flower?
Inside play allowed children new to my place to discover the pram full of babies, the children's kitchen, train tracks and the magic marble run. My Curtis built a lovely home from couches, cushions and blankets that graced the living room for many days. Lots of negotiating amongst themselves was practiced in that cushiony house...doorways needed to be modified for those that needed a more accessible way in, extra rooms were made to accomodate guests and a backyard garden gate was added for those that "were getting a little nervous."
It was fascinating to watch Curt learn to adapt his play to his new playmates. He wanted to start right in with them on games from Daisy Kindergarten which he played happily with the older boys. I suggested that perhaps the three year old might not want to play swords and Star Wars, and that she might like faeires and babies. My heart just melted as he adapted to her and built her a lovely house for faeries complete with ladders and swings which they played happily with together.
Rest time is always the most challenging part of our day..but so needed by the littles after all their adventures. We started at 130 each day with bathroom time and a story. This was read from a book. Books this week included The Nutcracker: A Ballet, Something from Nothing, The Lost Kitten, and the one that I always have to choke back tears when I read it...Guess How Much I Love You? Once in our cozy beds I hum a lullaby for a while and most days even the 5 year old had a snooze.
Tea time is promptly at 345 and it is so nice to enjoy a cup of tea, Rooibos or lavendar, and a croissant with the little ones. This is served on my favorite faery tray complete with lots of sweet faeries with wings and lovely clothes.
Then we were out to the garden in the backyard. Things are coming along out there. The sandbox was heavily used as was alot of water..quite a heat wave this past week with temperatures rising to 100F! The pool was brought out as were the sprinklers. The lettuces are doing well....the sugar snap peas are finished..way too hot for them. We planted some tomato seeds, brussel sprout seeds and zinia seeds. It also seems that in the Children's garden, the rotting pumpkins from november have sprouted vines...maybe there will be at least one pumpkin in the autumn!
Lastly, Friday's craft project was a success! We wet felted lovely balls with lots and lots of Dr. bronners Sal Suds soapy soapy water. Two turned out as ladybug balls and two turned out to be favorite color balls. I had hoped to put a jingle bell in the middle of each...but couldn't locate them. We'll do this craft again this upcoming Friday..maybe i'll find the bells by then. If i still have your child's ball it is because they had not dried yet and I have to pass the felting needle over them to push in any stray ends. They are lovely though. As soon as the proper cord for my cellphone arrives in the mail, i'll add pictures to this posting.
I look forward to this week.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Outline for My Summer Program...Letter to Parents
Hi all, as the last days of school nursery came to a close and over this
past weekend, i have been working feverishly to orgamize the program
for this season.
My 5 year old is my "co-director.". We have been working out
a few minor kinks but all in all year three of this program has gone
quite smoothly thus far.
RHYTHM
8 am to 9 ish am. Arrival
930 am. Puppet play
945 bathroom
10 00 in the car and soon at carpenters woods
10 15 picnic snack in the woods...story telling and exploring..on
Fridays we stay home and do an art project in the back yard or
courtyard
12 15 pack up
12 30 back home for lunch that has been cooking slowing in the
crockpot..this is the "magic pot"
100 under threes to rest
200 over threes to rest
3 to 330 wake up
400 tea time..tea and croissants..on Fridays we head to the trolley
car for ice cream.
430 out in the backyard garden
500 pm pickup
We transition smoothly from step to step...so it is not as rigid a
schedule as it seems.
FEEDING RHYTHM
Snack i hike in with an assortment of crackers, fruits, granola and
sometimes cheeses...and their water bottles. I spread out a blanket
and we enjoy our snack upon reaching base camp.
Lunch: the magic crockpot makes foods according to Steiner's grains of the week:
Monday: Moon: Rice
Tuesday: Mars: Barley Soup
Wednesday: Millet: Cream of wheat with toasted Millet( toasted in
delicious butter)
Thursday: Jupiter: crockpot Apricot Bread...yes you can make bread in
a crockpot!
Friday:Venus: Oats: steel cut oatmeal with soymilk and lots of butter
WEEKLY THEME
The camp runs for 11weeks every two weeks the theme changes
Week one and two: Ladybugs
Week three and four: Fireflies
Week five and six: Rainbows
Week seven and eight Merfolk...you know mermaids and such
Week nine and ten: Bees
Week eleven: Frogs and Toads
PUPPET PLAY
The puppet play each day reflects the theme and i also try to have the
art project for the week incorporate the theme.
ART PROJECTS
These happen once a week on Fridays ..preferably outside in the
courtyard or backyard in lieu of going to the woods. I haven't placed
these on any particular weeks yet, but will keep you posted.
Wet felting balls
Dyeing silks
Making playdough
Making stamps
Gluing a Rainbow pasta suncatcher
Creating God's eyes...you know with the branches and the yarn.
PLEASE BRING
Sun hat
Water bottle
Sturdy shoes or sandals that can get wet..we walk in a small stream
in the woods..up to Ronia's ankles. Sneakers will get soggy..i also
let them go barefoot at our location if they like.
Bathing suit
A bag that you can leave with me that has a change or two of clothes in it.
Girls can of course wear their pretty dresses, but they will get wet
and dirty in the woods..make sure dresses are short for mobility in
climbing trees.
If it's rainy..bring the raingear for that day..by all means.
LUNCH
I provide lunch. This might throw some of you..but it is a good
thing. I have found in the past two years that whatever i have in the
pot for curt and i to eat the other children want to eat anyway.
Also it is nice to maintain group cohesiveness by having the main meal
all one all together. And, won't you just love not having to pack
lunch for your children!
WOODS
I put deet free buzz away on the children just as we enter the woods.
If it is extremely sunny at our location in the woods i put on Badger
balm sumscreen on their arms,ankles noses etc. I still want them to
get their daily dose of vitamin D but without the burn.
I will send a scan of the woods map. We take the green
trail in and walk down to the little bridge. That is where i set up
base camp and have picnic snack. It is a great location and I
encourage you to visit with your little ones and they can show you all
their discoveries.
Some of you die hard hikers might scoff at the smallness of these
woods. :) but for the little ones it is a huge forest. When I tell
forest tales i have to remind them that our woods is just a woods and
that there is nothing living there larger than a bunny rabbit..except
for the dogs that walk througn with their owners.
When we sit on the bridge if they ask for a tale..some I tell are from
A Donsy of Gnomes...about various gnomes that live in a woods similar
to ours named Limindor Woods
Robin Hood ... This is a little old for the under 5 but Curt is into
it. And I edit heavily
Thwacky Bear..a camping story told at a Coffee House
about a Bear and an Avocado
And many other stories from my Golden Book Collection that I have
somewhat committed to memory.
I do try to keep the faery tales to a minimum as they will receive
them in such breadth and depth in the grades but they seem to be
sneaking into children's repertoire earlier and earlier .. If requested
I do provide.
POISON IVY: I look out for it in the woods. Also upon return to my
place..we promplty march directly to the bathroom where I wash down
their arms hands, legs and feet with anti poison ivy soap....This is
castile soap with jewelweed. The jewelweed can bind the resin.
You can check this out online. There is approximately a four hour
window..well some sites say it is anywhere from 15 min to 4 hours
after exposure in which the resin can be washed off with no rash
appearing. I also have ivy block...Here is the web site:
http://www.ivyblock.com/faq.php..if you would like me to apply that to
your child before entering the woods, I will but as it is not a
natural product and more like a medication, I need your approval.
CONTACT
I have my cellphone on me at all times. I have all your
phone numbers in my cell. My cell works just fine in the wooded
location where we play...call or preferably text anytime with your
concerns, questions.
PICKUP
Since this is a laid back sort of summer care program..there is no
real rigid pick up time. You have the Rhythm..so you know
approximately what we are doing and when. If your child needs to be
collected earlier than 330 pm let me know before then so that i can
have them awake and happy for you and maybe even get a snack into
them.
My son, age 5 2/3 dislikes goodbyes it seems. So i would ask
that your pickup be as short as possible and with as little
interaction with me as possible. I know that sounds like a really
anti-social request...and I have to stop my self from chatting with
you because I just love chatting with you all, but Curt gets a bit
rascally at the children's transitioning out of the group and I need
to stick close to him. Of course if you are picking up before
5...there are other children beside my own that are still in my care
whom I need to attend and that's yet another reason we can't have long
goodbyes.
UPDATES
Well if we can't chat at pick up, how will I kmow how my child is doing?
My goal is to send weekly email updates and maybe even some photos
detailing our adventures and play. And of course text or call anytime
after 5 or even during the day..I can sneak in a text or two.
CONCLUSION
Sorry for the long email, but I just like to be thorough. I have everyone's dates
in my calendar, if you need to change something..just let me know
whenever you can...last minute texts are fine as well. i'm pretty
flexible.
With much love and gratitude,
Ms.RockSand
past weekend, i have been working feverishly to orgamize the program
for this season.
My 5 year old is my "co-director.". We have been working out
a few minor kinks but all in all year three of this program has gone
quite smoothly thus far.
RHYTHM
8 am to 9 ish am. Arrival
930 am. Puppet play
945 bathroom
10 00 in the car and soon at carpenters woods
10 15 picnic snack in the woods...story telling and exploring..on
Fridays we stay home and do an art project in the back yard or
courtyard
12 15 pack up
12 30 back home for lunch that has been cooking slowing in the
crockpot..this is the "magic pot"
100 under threes to rest
200 over threes to rest
3 to 330 wake up
400 tea time..tea and croissants..on Fridays we head to the trolley
car for ice cream.
430 out in the backyard garden
500 pm pickup
We transition smoothly from step to step...so it is not as rigid a
schedule as it seems.
FEEDING RHYTHM
Snack i hike in with an assortment of crackers, fruits, granola and
sometimes cheeses...and their water bottles. I spread out a blanket
and we enjoy our snack upon reaching base camp.
Lunch: the magic crockpot makes foods according to Steiner's grains of the week:
Monday: Moon: Rice
Tuesday: Mars: Barley Soup
Wednesday: Millet: Cream of wheat with toasted Millet( toasted in
delicious butter)
Thursday: Jupiter: crockpot Apricot Bread...yes you can make bread in
a crockpot!
Friday:Venus: Oats: steel cut oatmeal with soymilk and lots of butter
WEEKLY THEME
The camp runs for 11weeks every two weeks the theme changes
Week one and two: Ladybugs
Week three and four: Fireflies
Week five and six: Rainbows
Week seven and eight Merfolk...you know mermaids and such
Week nine and ten: Bees
Week eleven: Frogs and Toads
PUPPET PLAY
The puppet play each day reflects the theme and i also try to have the
art project for the week incorporate the theme.
ART PROJECTS
These happen once a week on Fridays ..preferably outside in the
courtyard or backyard in lieu of going to the woods. I haven't placed
these on any particular weeks yet, but will keep you posted.
Wet felting balls
Dyeing silks
Making playdough
Making stamps
Gluing a Rainbow pasta suncatcher
Creating God's eyes...you know with the branches and the yarn.
PLEASE BRING
Sun hat
Water bottle
Sturdy shoes or sandals that can get wet..we walk in a small stream
in the woods..up to Ronia's ankles. Sneakers will get soggy..i also
let them go barefoot at our location if they like.
Bathing suit
A bag that you can leave with me that has a change or two of clothes in it.
Girls can of course wear their pretty dresses, but they will get wet
and dirty in the woods..make sure dresses are short for mobility in
climbing trees.
If it's rainy..bring the raingear for that day..by all means.
LUNCH
I provide lunch. This might throw some of you..but it is a good
thing. I have found in the past two years that whatever i have in the
pot for curt and i to eat the other children want to eat anyway.
Also it is nice to maintain group cohesiveness by having the main meal
all one all together. And, won't you just love not having to pack
lunch for your children!
WOODS
I put deet free buzz away on the children just as we enter the woods.
If it is extremely sunny at our location in the woods i put on Badger
balm sumscreen on their arms,ankles noses etc. I still want them to
get their daily dose of vitamin D but without the burn.
I will send a scan of the woods map. We take the green
trail in and walk down to the little bridge. That is where i set up
base camp and have picnic snack. It is a great location and I
encourage you to visit with your little ones and they can show you all
their discoveries.
Some of you die hard hikers might scoff at the smallness of these
woods. :) but for the little ones it is a huge forest. When I tell
forest tales i have to remind them that our woods is just a woods and
that there is nothing living there larger than a bunny rabbit..except
for the dogs that walk througn with their owners.
When we sit on the bridge if they ask for a tale..some I tell are from
A Donsy of Gnomes...about various gnomes that live in a woods similar
to ours named Limindor Woods
Robin Hood ... This is a little old for the under 5 but Curt is into
it. And I edit heavily
Thwacky Bear..a camping story told at a Coffee House
about a Bear and an Avocado
And many other stories from my Golden Book Collection that I have
somewhat committed to memory.
I do try to keep the faery tales to a minimum as they will receive
them in such breadth and depth in the grades but they seem to be
sneaking into children's repertoire earlier and earlier .. If requested
I do provide.
POISON IVY: I look out for it in the woods. Also upon return to my
place..we promplty march directly to the bathroom where I wash down
their arms hands, legs and feet with anti poison ivy soap....This is
castile soap with jewelweed. The jewelweed can bind the resin.
You can check this out online. There is approximately a four hour
window..well some sites say it is anywhere from 15 min to 4 hours
after exposure in which the resin can be washed off with no rash
appearing. I also have ivy block...Here is the web site:
http://www.ivyblock.com/faq.php..if you would like me to apply that to
your child before entering the woods, I will but as it is not a
natural product and more like a medication, I need your approval.
CONTACT
I have my cellphone on me at all times. I have all your
phone numbers in my cell. My cell works just fine in the wooded
location where we play...call or preferably text anytime with your
concerns, questions.
PICKUP
Since this is a laid back sort of summer care program..there is no
real rigid pick up time. You have the Rhythm..so you know
approximately what we are doing and when. If your child needs to be
collected earlier than 330 pm let me know before then so that i can
have them awake and happy for you and maybe even get a snack into
them.
My son, age 5 2/3 dislikes goodbyes it seems. So i would ask
that your pickup be as short as possible and with as little
interaction with me as possible. I know that sounds like a really
anti-social request...and I have to stop my self from chatting with
you because I just love chatting with you all, but Curt gets a bit
rascally at the children's transitioning out of the group and I need
to stick close to him. Of course if you are picking up before
5...there are other children beside my own that are still in my care
whom I need to attend and that's yet another reason we can't have long
goodbyes.
UPDATES
Well if we can't chat at pick up, how will I kmow how my child is doing?
My goal is to send weekly email updates and maybe even some photos
detailing our adventures and play. And of course text or call anytime
after 5 or even during the day..I can sneak in a text or two.
CONCLUSION
Sorry for the long email, but I just like to be thorough. I have everyone's dates
in my calendar, if you need to change something..just let me know
whenever you can...last minute texts are fine as well. i'm pretty
flexible.
With much love and gratitude,
Ms.RockSand
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